Sunday, January 29, 2012

Need some advise...includes me , my boyfriends step mom and a hair dresser...ugh...please help?

ok...well back at the beginning of this year..i went to go get my nails done and i saw my boyfriends brother there..so i started talking to him...well anyways the lady that was cutting his hair is named dina... and my boyfriends brother(dustin) said something bad about his step mom ...well dina went and told stacy (my boyfriends step mom) i was talking **** about her...and she confronted me about it and i told her i didnt say anything that dustin had said it...so i thought it was all behind us..till today when my boyfriend told me that dina had once again told his stepmom and his dad that i had talked **** about her...yes 6 months later she is still telling stacy i was talking **** about her...ugh...what would you do in this situation? this is pathetic in my opinion....want to give me some advise ppl?Need some advise...includes me , my boyfriends step mom and a hair dresser...ugh...please help?
Talk to your boyfriend to set the facts straight. Get him to explain the situation to his step-mom. Don't return to the salon again as Dina sounds like a gossip and home-wrecker. If you need any more advice talk to your mom.Need some advise...includes me , my boyfriends step mom and a hair dresser...ugh...please help?
hair dressers are mostly like that...they like to talk to entice conversation--no matter if it's a slander! Go and tell stacy that it wasn't you, it was Dustin said it to you, and dina cant differentiate between a male voice and a female voice. Also tell dina to stop talking bad about you, or it's time for you to find a new hairdresser.
Yep, this is a hairdresser who has nothing better to do than mess w/ ppl's lives. This is none of her business in the first place. What does it do for her to blab about information that isn't even correct? OK, back to earth now....talk to the hairdresser. Let her know that the facts of her info and storytelling are incorrect and by her gossiping, it has hurt quite a few ppl. She may not see anything wrong w/ what she did, but usually when ppl are just in every1's business, they don't care who gets hurt. So be prepared to take on the role of asking her for advice - she's prolly more than eager to give you her opinion. Let her know how hurt you are and that you don't like to see others hurt. By her story, Dustin, the b/f and you have been set up (don't use that term - it sounds too blaming) maybe the three of you have had your reputations and integrity challenged. The Step Mom's also been hurt -- no one likes to hear bad things about themselves. So give Miss Clairol some grace and let her know how damaging this has been. Assure her that you know it wasn't intentional on her part (even tho that might not be true) but however the wires got crossed, the StepMom and others are owed an apology. It would be great if all of you showed up at her salon and had this convo to get the truth out. OK, the color looks to be done - time to come out from under the dryer!
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