Should I really do it? (personal ';sad'; story involved ) need ur help a professional hair dresser any1 else 2!!?

first of all hi


i am a mexican even though ppl think im white because of my skin color (have light brown eyes) (dont really mind ) anyways i was born with a birth mark which was back then one strand of white hair...but as i grew its startes spreading n its not like one streak that u can easily cover up with mascara its spread out through my whole hair.


i like my hair only b/c its thick n has alot of volume n shine (its genetic fathers side of the fam.) but in skool they tease me about it n it hurts they say like im old im a grandmom ppl also ask y do i have it n i just make up stories like i had highlights but something went wrong with the mixture n stuff like tha


i havent never have told my mom that they tease me n skool b/c im not close to her to talk 2 her like that also i would feel embarressed n dont want my own mother to feel sorry for me .ive asked her before about dying my hair but she said i was 2 young but now shes kinda gonna let me dye my hair... my natural hair is color is dark brown with the white strands (it looks black but its really not)


@ first when i was thinkin about dying my hair i thought a light brown would suit me good n the white wouldent be noticible as white hair...but know ive decided to dye it black.. jet black is possible i dont really think i would look bad in it b/c my hair is dark n so are my eyebrows.





my biggest concern is that i dont want 2 dye my hair b/c of the damage it can do to my hair... im scared that since its so nice thick n has alot of volume it will lose all of those great things i love. secondly is will i look good in it since im light skinned..i look unique b/c everywhere i go ppl stare in a good way (sorry dont mean 2 brag)


thirdly i dont know wat brand 2 use b/c theres alot i was thinking like Garnier since it has avocado n grape seed oil to nourish my hair while dying n it wont be as harsh on my hair.


also what products should i use to prevent damage from harmful sun rays, dryness n things like that.


(my age is 13 turning 14 march 6)


i really want to know wat should i do if possible please try to answer all my questions and concerns... thank you so much i really need this


-sandraShould I really do it? (personal ';sad'; story involved ) need ur help a professional hair dresser any1 else 2!!?
Don't worry so much it will be just fine. I have dyed my hair like 4 or 5 times now and its thin and not the greatest of hair and its still the same as before. Bleaching hair is the only kind of thing that you would have to think about but its no where as near the same harshness as regular coloring. I am sure your hair would be just as great as before trust me. You can also use Aussies 3 minute miracle conditioner after you dye it if you like. It works good with making your hair soft. My friend used it on her hair after bleaching because it make her hair feel a little brittle and now its like it always was.Should I really do it? (personal ';sad'; story involved ) need ur help a professional hair dresser any1 else 2!!?
your hair will be fine. many women go their whole lives dying the hair. if that was true i would have 3 strands left ion my hair dont worry, get rid of the streak and punch those kids in the face. god school sucked, but i would do it again in a heartbeat! go with something natural. i would not try to lighten your hair on your own, that can turn out bad.